Stanley J. Murphy III, 71

Stanley Joseph Murphy III, 71, passed away on Tuesday, June 30, 2026 at Reading Hospital.

Born in Pottstown, he was the son of Anna Mae (Deliman) and the late Stanley J. Murphy Jr.

Stanley was a devoted Catholic. He was a member of St. Aloysius and St. Catherine of Siena Roman Catholic Churches where he was an usher and attended mass daily.   He was a 4th degree knight with the Knights of Columbus, Archbishop Sheen 3046 and volunteered at the Pottstown Cancer Center for over 20 years. 

Stanley graduated from Pottstown High School in 1973 and attended Montgomery County Community College. He worked in the hospitality industry over 45 years bartending at many places from Pennsylvania all the way to Florida.  He has bartended at Coventry Pub, Brookside Country Club, and RiverCrest Golf Club over the years.  In 2018 he was honored to be inducted into the Bartender Hall of Fame. Stan the bartender also worked at the Keystone Villa, Douglassville.

Stan was an avid traveler and especially loved his trips to the beaches in Delaware and Florida.  One of his hobbies was making artwork out of his vast sea glass collection.  He was a diehard Philadelphia sports fan and enjoyed cooking for family and friends.

Surviving is his mother, Anna Mae Murphy; sister Theresa Urban, wife of Steve; brother Michael Murphy; brother Kevin Murphy, partner of Denise Leschak; sister Elizabeth (Beth) Lightcap, wife of George; nieces and nephews Justin, Kristy, Avery, Alyssa, and Owen; great nieces and great nephews Julien, Anderson, Sophie, and Aniston. He is predeceased by his beloved dog Mercedes.  Stan will be deeply missed by all of his family and friends.

A memorial mass will be held on Friday, July 10, 2026 at 11:00AM at St. Aloysius Church (223 Beech St, Pottstown, PA 19464) with Fr. Wesley celebrating. Burial will follow at St. Aloysius cemetery. A visitation will also be held on Friday, July 10, 2026 from 10:00AM-11:00AM at the church.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Aloysius Church or to St. Catherine of Siena Church (4975 Boyertown Pike, Reading, PA 19606) or to the American Cancer Society (https://www.cancer.org/) in Stanley’s name.

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My sincere condolences to the Murphy family I went to St. Aloysius with Stan

~ Rebecca Marvel 1131ben Franklin Hwy W Douglassville, PA
7/8/2026 10:04:27 PM

To the entire Murphy family, I extend my deepest sympathy for your loss. May God's peace fill your hearts and give you comfort at this time.

~ Jeff Gerber POTTSTOWN, PA
7/8/2026 3:55:43 PM

So sorry to hear of Stan’s passing. He was a very kind and caring person. My condolences to the family.

~ Tina Hartranft
7/8/2026 12:04:47 PM

My deepest sympathy to your entire family. May the Lord give you all comfort and strength during this difficult time. I know he will be missed by all.
Sending prayers for your family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💕

~ Vicki Scheetz Schroy
7/7/2026 8:45:42 AM

Our dear Murphy Family,
We, too, are in shock and grieving your family’s loss. Stan loved you all so much. We have peace knowing he was joyfully celebrating with you all only days before his passing and that he will live on eternally and in so many people’s hearts.

~ Kenn and Patty Picardi Pottstown, PA
7/7/2026 7:11:32 AM

I’m so sorry for your loss Stan was a really good guy. With love Pam and kim

~ Pamela Gierschick
7/6/2026 11:03:18 PM

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Stan. He was a great guy. May he rest in eternal peace!

~ Larry and Judy Friend Pottstown, PA
7/6/2026 8:52:46 PM

So sad to hear about this, Murph was always a great guy as we were growing up. My heartfelt condolences to all of you. Healing thoughts and prayers for you.

~ Mary Ann Hoffecker Boyertown, PA
7/6/2026 2:21:02 PM

Stan was one exceptional caring guy who lived well , served over and beyond to his community, always had a smile and a positive word of encouragement to say. He left a great legacy to anyone he came across by sharing his story and refusing to give up living ...not only for himself, but for others. He treated people with respect, compassion and loved people like brothers and sisters ..He will never be forgotten, and always remembered for the gift of himself that he sacrificially volunteered to do to help others in need. Stan will surely be missed and I"m sending my deepest prayers to the family .

~ Audrey Lewis POTTSTOWN, PA
7/5/2026 7:49:59 PM

Stan will be deeply missed and never forgotten. He was one if the best, may God show him all the wonders of a beautiful new world

~ Wendy Hiddemen Jensen Beach, FL
7/5/2026 1:37:09 PM

I knew Stan from high school, saw him at the class of 1973 picnic last year! He was a very kind & funny guy, loved following his experiences on facebook! May God hold him close & his family during this time!

~ Dorothy Kordish Reading, PA
7/5/2026 12:51:56 PM

Please accept my condolences for your loss.

~ Deborah Barndt
7/5/2026 12:47:36 PM

Deepest sympathies and condolences to the Murphy family. I met Stan a couple of times with Mike. What a nice man with a great personality. Rest in peace, Stanley.

~ Beth Sattizahn Robesonia, PA
7/4/2026 11:45:48 AM

Don't know exactly what to say, my husband and I are in shock. A sweet and happy guy. I know one thing for sure, our reunions will never be the same. Condolences to all the family.
Joe and Wendy Shuick

~ Joseph & Wendy Shuick POTTSTOWN, PA
7/3/2026 9:52:28 PM

Prayers sent to the Murphy family. RIP Murf.

~ Earl R Olinger Boyertown, PA
7/3/2026 12:51:18 PM

Rest in peace my brother Sir Knight

~ Jerry Gillespie
7/3/2026 11:24:04 AM