Barbara M. (Bowman) Shade, 86, wife of the late William M. Shade, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 8, 2026 at Keystone Villa.

Born in Sacramento, PA, she was the daughter of the late Melvin and Marguerite (Hornberger) Bowman and resided in Gilbertsville, PA for 40 years.

Barbara was very creative and artistic. She was an amazing quilter and was a member of the Boyertown Quilt Guild. Barbara owned and operated The Bridal Villa in Quakertown for 15 years. Following her retirement from the bridal shop, she worked at the front desk of her daughter’s optometry office. Barbara was the “Grammy” of the neighborhood kids, in Gilbertsville, and her house would often be the hangout spot.

Surviving is her daughter Michele Shade-Hinchliffe, wife of Greg; daughter Tammy Sibalic, wife of Michael; sister Mary Ann “Mim” Morgan; and granddaughter Leah Sibalic. She is predeceased by her brothers Melvin Jr. “Sonny” Bowman and Roger Bowman.

Services will be held privately by the family at this time.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Dementia Society of America (https://www.dementiasociety.org/) in Barbara’s name.

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Michele and family, sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Condolences to all.

~ Sue Bauer
9/17/2026 3:19:13 PM

Mrs. Shade was my neighbor. A wonderful and kind lady. Godspeed.

~ Robert Paul Minsenberger Gilbertsville, PA
9/15/2026 10:59:42 PM

So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing Michele

~ Linda Schade Koppenhaver
9/15/2026 1:21:18 PM

Sorry to hear that Barbara has passed. Sending our thoughts and prayers to the families of Michele and Tammy. Yes, agree that Barbara was the "Grammy" of the neighborhood and she enjoyed having her house be the hangout house. Liz and especially Izzy thought of her as their adopted "Grammy". She definitely was missed when she moved to Pottstown a few years ago. We are lucky to have so many memories that were made during those years as neighbors that will always be with us. RIP

~ Brian, Fran, Liz and Izzy Bolognese
9/14/2026 8:02:42 PM